Joshua
is eight years old and has been recognized to have mild mental retardation. He
is learning at a slower rate than his peers and is routinely two grade levels
behind in all subjects. On a daily basis, Joshua meets with a speech therapist
and a mobility therapist. Twice daily, he receives behavioral medication
administered by the school nurse.
Joshua
did not speak until he was three years old, which put him behind
developmentally as he entered preschool and kindergarten. Even through, the
profile on Joshua did not explicitly state whether he was held back or not, it
is not unreasonable to infer he spent two years in kindergarten to make up for
his slow developmental growth. If this is the case, Joshua is probably in first
grade.
He
has not been given much of a fair shake in life. His parents are drug addicts
and homeless. They both have been in state rehabilitation facilities. It is
common for Joshua not to see or hear from his parents for months on end.
Ms.
Ella, Josh’s 75-year-old grandmother, is his sole provider and guardian. She
has limited financial resources being retired and living off state welfare.
At
school, Joshua meets with speech and mobility therapists and takes behavioral
medication twice daily. When not on his medicine, Joshua becomes easily
irritable and will verbally and physically lash out at classmates. He often
plays alone and has few friends.
On
a positive note, Joshua is musically inclined. I can visualize him enjoying
music centers and probably can listen to books on tape. He is very creative and
produces quality grade appropriate art and drawings. Joshua excels using
computers.
When
I read the case profile of Joshua, I was immediately reminded of a couple of
students I worked with while directing an after school program and substitute
teaching in the Fayetteville School District. Mason was a slow learner from the
minute he walked into Ms. Smith’s kindergarten classroom. He spoke in broken,
half-annunciated sentences. “Ms. Bedah, I wan pay.” (Ms. Rebekah, I want to
play.) His fine motor skills were uncoordinated, as he would show while writing
letters or cutting with scissors. Mason liked books, but couldn’t read them. He
enjoyed looking at the pictures. He could identify what the represented,
though. When asked to recall a story the teacher had just read aloud, Mason had
difficulty providing accurate details and usually replied with one-word
answers.
Basic
math, counting, symbols, addition were trying for Mason. Reading a non-digital
clock was not possible for him. He knew when his speech therapy session was
scheduled, but had little concept of when it was in relation to the rest of the
school day. He would often ask, “Is it 12:30, yet?” even after having gone to
the therapy session.
A
primary difference between Mason and the fictional profile of Joshua is their
behavior. Mason was fun-loving, never violent. He always ran around with a
goofy smile on his face and loved to hug. He had little concept of his
disability, though the next year when he repeated kindergarten, I noticed he
became a little more frustrated with himself (yet, rarely with other students).
Mason
lived in a two-parent, working class home with caring parents.
A
better comparison to Joshua is a student I had daily contact with for about two
years. I had Cody in my after-school program. He came from a broken home – his
mother and father were divorced – and often stayed with his paternal
grandparents, by all accounts a well-to-do couple. There were days when neither
of his parents would pick him up by 6 p.m., so, the first call was to the
grandmother who was prompt in signing Cody out of the program for the day. 
He
was small for his age, skinny and did not speak.
I
observed him during the school day while substituting as a reading
interventionist and he struggled with sounds and spelling. Cody’s writing was
illegible. His math skills were limited and he read at a kindergarten level. He
repeated the first grade.
Cody’s
behavior deteriorated as the months went by. He became an angry, reclusive and
possessive child. If he wanted a ball or a game, he often took it from another
child and ran off. He sat in the corner of the gym while others played games.
He refused to participate in most group activities and on more than one
occasion he tried to run away from the playground.
Cody
spoke of how he missed his father one spring, how he had gone “on vacation.” I
later learned Cody’s father had abandoned his responsibilities as a parent and ran
off to New Mexico where he was incarcerated. One day, Cody was excessively
troubled. He was playing with Lego blocks by himself when another child, a
girl, came to play as well. Cody became very angry, grabbed at her blocks and
threw them at her, yelling. When I approached Cody, he ran into a corner and
sat. I followed him to the corner, slowly, but he ran away into another corner.
Needless to say, I wasn’t not going to play Cat-and-Mouse with a nine year old.
I let him be as long as he didn’t hurt anyone else. About 20 minutes later, all
30 of our after-school children went outside to play on the playground. But
Cody stayed in the corner. I again tried to approach him, but he ran off into
an opposite corner. So, I laid on my stomach in the middle of the court begging
him to go outside with everyone. After a 15-minute standoff, Cody ran outside.
Then,
things got worse. After just a short time on the playground, Cody hit and
yelled at another child. He screamed ferociously. Unprovoked, he ran after
another child and hit her. I, again, attempted to talk to Cody, but he ran off,
back into the school. I searched the gym, the downstairs hallways. I later
found him in an upstairs hallway by the office. He let me talk to him, I forget
about what, I offered to buy him a canned soda from the teacher’s lounge and we
went back outside.
Cody
again lashed out at a child, screaming and yelling. I apprehended Cody, holding
him around the waist and placed him on my knee. He kicked at my shins, pounded
his fists into my forearms and tried to bite me.
“I
hate you! You are a piece of shit!” he yelled. “Fuck you.” The nine-year-old
was laughing now, fiendishly.
“I’m
sorry you feel that way, Cody. I don’t hate you. I like you. I want to be your
friend,” I said calmly.
“Shut
up! You’re stupid.” He laughed again.
I
wasn’t holding him tight. I simply balanced him on my knee while not letting
him get away. I feared he would run off, again. Or, hurt another child. I held
him for an hour.
My
staff called his grandmother, who later came and retrieved Cody. When she
arrived, I let him go and he ran off back into the gym. He never returned to
the after-school program.
About
five months later, while directing a summer camp, I was monitoring my group of
about 60 school-aged children when I felt a tap on my shoulder.
“Mr.
Dustin,” said the voice.
I
turned around and it was Cody, waving and smiling. The Devil had disappeared
from his features. He was sitting with his summer camp group, talking with a
couple of friends, calmly eating. He looked peaceful. His grandmother was
there, too. We chatted. She said Cody was living with her and her husband
exclusively and he had begun taking some behavioral medication. Cody had
changed schools and was improving his reading. He had begun to talk more, curse
less.
I
saw Cody several more times that summer in the lunch hall and on various field
trips where his summer camp and mine crossed paths. The new Cody was more
consistently tempered, more playful, non-violent.
When
I read the profile of Joshua, I couldn’t help but think of Cody. And, then, I
realized that was four years ago. Cody is probably 13 now.
Wow.
I
wonder how he has grown. I wonder if he is happy. I wonder…
 While there is much controversy surrounding
the use of behavioral medication for ADHD and other issues, there is little
doubt in my mind they work for the extremely troubled. Cody is such a case. For
Joshua, when he is not on his medication, his temper flairs. He becomes angry,
frustrated and violent. There is a lot going wrong in both Cody and Joshua’s
lives. Their parents are lifeless shills. They are playing against a stacked
deck of cards. So, any aid that will give them a chance at happiness, a normal,
consistent day is welcome. But, it doesn’t begin or end with medication. An
honest, providing role model, an understanding teacher, and, at Cody’s present
age, a positive virtuous friend all can play influential roles. But, ultimately
Cody and Joshua grow up. They are not so disabled they won’t be able to live on
their own and provide for their basic needs. They will be independent adults
one day. The medication only goes so far. Both boys must learn to make their
own decisions and learn from the mistakes of those they trusted the most. This scares
me when I think of Cody.
When
will the Devil come back?
While
medication won’t solve Cody or Joshua’s long-term problems, it gives them the
stability to work on those problems in the present. They can focus more on their
interventions and general classroom studies. They can calmly coexist with
friends and adults. They can begin to form habits in a stable environment.
I
wish them the best.
 
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